Budhha said,
weak people revenge
strong people forgive.
intelligent people ignore!
That means intelligent people follow silence and the person who learnt the lesson
that how to remain silence, no one can stop that person from moving forward in life!
when we born It takes 2 years to learn to speak, But believe me the whole life
is so short to learn how to become silence and to learn what, when, where and how much to speak. words are very powerful, it can change someone’s life.
It can destroy someone’s life, or it can transform someone’s life!
Words are so incredibly powerful. choose your words wisely”
Plato once said.
Wise Men Speak Because They Have Something To Say;
Fools Because They Have To Say Something.
It seems to me that a lot of times we talk just we won’t keep quiet,
thinking that silence is something to be ashamed of, something to be avoided. some people considered talkative people as intelligent people. But it’s not true!
Successful people always have two things on their lips. Silence and a smile
Silence is a precious gift
we give to ourselves.
In that space between our words,
not only do we find ourselves,
but we can also hear
our own heart, soul and intuition talking to us..” ~
Luminita D. Saviuc SAID,
you know there would be times,
when people are gonna judge you or criticize you
according to their opinion
and they are not gonna understand you
no matter how much you talk or try to explain yourself.
It would be waste.
In that situation remember what Mandy Hale said
Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence.
Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say
is nothing at all.
So, I want you to promise yourself from now
that you will speak only when you feel
that your words are better than your silence.
silence is better than unnecessary drama!
So today I will tell you 5 Principles on Silence That Every Successful People Follow!
Number 1. Silence is a source of great strength,” says Lao Tzu
This quote is a reminder that sometimes,
the best thing you can do is just be quiet.
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to forget the power of silence.
When things seem to be controllable,
when someone did something wrong to distract you,
to make you feel down and you get angry.
and you lost your temper.
now there are two options in front of you.
number 1, you start yelling at them, trying to prove yourself, explaining things.
This would waste your energy.
Number 2, you can take a step back, slowing down and be quiet.
It can actually be incredibly powerful.
You don’t have to explain anything to anyone!
there is power in stillness and quiet.
In a world that is constantly moving and full of noise,
it can be easy to overlook the benefits of silence.
But when we take the time to be quiet and still,
we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
Silence can be a powerful tool for decision-making When we are quiet, we can tune out distractions and
focus on what is truly important.
This can help us make more informed and thoughtful decisions.
Silence can also be a source of strength for self-reflection.
It allows us to take a step back
and reflect on our thoughts and feelings.
When we are quiet,
we can listen to our inner voice
and gain a deeper understanding of ourselves.
This can lead to personal growth and self-awareness
Number 2. He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.
Only those that truly know you
can understand your silence, not just your words.
if a person cannot understand your silence,
how will they properly understand your words when you do speak?
Silence is as much a part of communication as rests are a part of music.
Without the rests, without the silence,
there is no pause, there is no reflection. Just noise
Silence is the best answer to someone.
who does not value your words!
Number 3. Work hard in silence, let your success make the noise.
When it comes to working hard towards your goals and accomplishing something, there are two types of people.
Type one: Those who set goals and go shout it out to whoever will listen.
Type two: Those who set goals and work hard towards them in silence.
When we tell people what we intend to achieve,
we instill in ourselves to a certain degree,
a premature sense of achievement.
We feel a sense of pride in letting people know
what we aspire to do,
Instead, work hard in silence.
Achieve your goals and let your success make all the noise.
Remember, there's only one lion in the jungle.
Going alone may make you feel lonely,
but it also sets you apart from the herd.
Be obsessive and passionate about your work,
and prove those who doubted you wrong.
So, roll up your sleeves and get going.
Your hard work will pay off someday.
Let your success make the noise!
It’s important to remain humble. Don’t go on announcing every small win, let your success make the noise for you.
Number 4. In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
We can tolerate almost everything,
but we can’t let our friends go
without being concerned about our feelings.
We realize that our friends are our most valuable things,
and it hurts us much
when we are apart from them.
We expect our friends to be there for us
and to stand out for us.
“The silence of our friends,”
four simple yet powerful words,
struck me in an unexpected way.
He was correct; silence from people whom we expect to have
our backs might make us wonder
who our true friends are.
The “silence” is what we remember the most
and is often the source of the most grief.
What hurts is not when our enemies criticise us,
but when we seek support from those
we trust and are left alone instead
Number 5. I often regret that I have spoken; never that I have been silent
A harshly spoken word is un-eraseable. Often silence is the best option.
Do you regret in life?
just try to remember. how many times you just spoke
and everything messed up in your life
and now you regret and keep telling yourself
that I wish I would have been silence then.
Many times, right?
Even I did the same,
But right now, i meditate and I mostly stay silence.
I don’t waste my words and energy on anyone or anything!
Silence is sometimes the best answer.” Dalai Lama
Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know -
Silence is the ultimate weapon of power.
Lao Tzu
Silence teaches us how to react to our problems
we all face problems in life
But your problem is not the problem
your reaction is the problem.
If we all know the power of silence
and know how to stay calm
then 90% of our problems would be solved automatically.
so one of the best lessons you can learn in life is to master
how to remain calm and silence.
Time and silence are the most luxurious things today.
Thank you so much.